Innocent girls cheated on social media

Women who are connected to social media have a lot of problems, so they should use the social site very carefully, especially when you chat with someone.  You should know that from this platform, where good deeds are done, various tactics of immorality, immorality, dishonesty and deception are also adopted.  I will try to shed light on how a woman is deceived into marrying through social media and how she is persuaded to marry without a guardian.

By mentioning two important incidents in this issue, I urge women to beware of such people.  There is an incident of an educated Pakistani woman who was in touch with an educated but jihadi minded man, the two had a good conversation which had the effect of creating an atmosphere of love and affection between them.  The jihadi mentality of the man also made the mentality of the girl a jihadi and this girl considered murder as the real religion and in this regard the girl became extremely mad with the man.  In front of the girl, the same man who is of the jihadi type began to look like a real Muslim.  The talk escalated to marriage.  The boy agreed that I will marry you, months and years went by like this but the promise of marriage was just a promise, now the girl has reached the age of forty.  The girl suddenly realized that this man is only promising marriage but he is not fulfilling his promise by getting married. Something is wrong.  So in the end he refused to marry.  The refusal to marry came at a time when she felt that no one would accept her in the society and she lost consciousness.  For now, she started contacting the authoritative scholars, then after a lot of hard work and difficulties, the relationship became connected with marriage.

 Explaining the dangers of social media after this incident, she says that most of the men here ruin the innocent lives of the girls by giving them soft and sweet words and the girls regain consciousness when the time for recovery is over.  At the same time, he repented from social media and deleted all his accounts.

 Another incident is very recent which has inspired me to warn other women in this regard.  This is the story of an unmarried Indian cleric who was in contact with a cleric.  She liked the work of Alam Sahib very much and started loving him for the sake of religion.  This religious love lasted till marriage, so the cleric offered marriage to the cleric.  When the girl spoke to the family, she did not agree with the relationship.  The matter of marriage came to me through some means and I was asked if a religious scholar loves a religious scholar and wants to marry him so that both of them can do good religious work together but his guardian is not satisfied.  Can Wali get married?  ۔  Furthermore, I was informed that when this issue was asked to a Madani Sahib, he replied that in such a case, the girl can change the guardian, he will become another guardian, but the girl was even told that if this girl  If she does not marry this religious scholar, then on the Day of Resurrection, this girl will be asked about her ability, and then her father will turn away.

 I asked Saila five questions on this question so that the matter would be clear to me and I could answer correctly.

 (1) Does the girl love this world and keep talking to it in solitude?

 (2) If she wants to marry this scholar for the sake of religion so that both of them can do good deeds of religion together, then consider some important work of the invitation of this scholar till now so that their distinctive quality can be assessed.

 (3) Is the fatwa regarding the change of guardian of a girl and her ability in resurrection from the same scholar with whom she is talking about marriage?

 (4) Why doesn't the girl's father want to marry this scholar?

 (5) When a religious scholar is married and has children, why does she want to marry him when she knows that she will have to face problems of comfort in this house and polygamy in the society?

 Here are the answers to my questions, respectively.

 (1) The girl talks to the religious scholar in solitude and also loves him, but because of religious work and not for sexual gratification.

 (2) He teaches Arabic theology, conducts online scholarly courses and intends to do religious work in Madinah in the future.

 (3) Yes, the same religious scholar has issued such a fatwa.

 (4) The girl is underage and virgin, she is 19 years old and the scholar is 41 years old and has two children while the girl is the only daughter of her father therefore the guardian is not happy with this marriage.

 (5) Religious scholars love the girl immensely because of her piety and want to work with her in the future, and tell the girl that they do not want to lose her religious ability because of this.  The girl agrees to marry him even though she has never seen him.

 After that I replied to him that from the fatwa I was suspecting that someone was giving fatwa in his own interest and also deceiving the girl in the name of resurrection and the girl has become overwhelmed with emotions by following the words of religious scholar.  A woman is soft-hearted, she gives her heart to anyone in sweet words. It seems to be the same here too.  To issue a fatwa against the guardian and to win the heart in the name of resurrection is in fact fraud and deception  Is .

 Since the girl was a scholar and was not satisfied with his fatwa, then for some reason she asks another scholar about the problem so that she does not take wrong step in her emotions.

The first thing is that in the above case the girl does not have the right to change the guardian and the marriage without the guardian is invalid in the Shari'ah.  Due to longevity, being married and having children.  And it is not a bad thing for a guardian to find an unmarried relationship of suitable age for his daughter.  When Jabir ibn 'Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) mentioned his marriage to the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him), he asked, "Did you marry a virgin or to Theba?"  He said, "Why did you not marry a virgin?" He further explained the benefit of marrying a virgin:

 Your interpretation shows that there is an age for a couple to play and jump and each of the men and women can wish to be married to an unmarried man so that both of them can enjoy each other to the fullest.  If due to age difference a young girl after marriage is not able to get full enjoyment of full youth from a long time man then regretting later will not fulfill the main purpose of marriage instead of peace of mind.  Must have

 As far as the world is concerned about the resurrection and ability, my answer to this is that this is the tactic by which the world has made the innocent girl its prey.  If you do not marry me, you will lose your ability and on the Day of Resurrection when Allah Almighty will ask you about your ability, what will you answer, your father will turn away from you.

 The scope of a woman's invitation is not the same as that of a man.  This does not mean that the woman will not do the work of da'wah, she will do it as per convenience but with Islamic limits and restrictions.  Then a scholar does not need a man to act according to his knowledge and to convey his knowledge to others and for that it is not necessary to marry the same age old son of the world. Do other people not have religion and knowledge?

 Last but not least, all these people who talk to girls directly on social media unnecessarily and lure them for marriage with greasy things.  Talk about rubbing salt in my wounds - d'oh!  Secondly, if you really want to marry a girl on the basis of her knowledge and religion, keeping in view the Shariah, then do not try to seduce her for marriage by talking to her, but talk to her guardian about marriage.  Movies have driven Muslim girls out of the house in the name of love marriage and have been living an unholy life by committing haraam marriage without a court marriage. Now social media is also inciting girls to rebel against the saints.  It is a pity when even those who have knowledge are seen as those who raise the awareness of rebellion.

 From these words, women are being advised to use social media as much as necessary and cautiously, not to talk to any unknown man unnecessarily, to refer to a scholar whose knowledge and piety is well-known, as far as possible.  Avoid talking in audio messages and write as much as you need and do not talk about marriage to anyone but if someone talks to you about it, ask him to talk to your guardian.